After I’d written my full length article about how the feeling of not being good enough had prevented me from being the soldier I wanted to be it occurred to
me that I needed to write about how it had affected my relationships.

I wrote it and nothing happened. There was no sense of release as there had been previously but as I write now I feel it was a necessary step. For many years I’ve known that the way we think affects the results we get. I wanted better results so logically I need to change my thinking. But I didn’t know how to do it. I’ve spent close on £50,000 in pursuit of a change in thinking but nothing worked and I couldn’t see why.

Poking about on YouTube I found Bob Proctor had died in February. I knew about him from Nightingale Conant as well as the DVD The Secret. What I didn’t know was that he had a programme called Paradigm Shift and it was being broadcast free for 5 days at the end of June.

After watching Diane fumble about trying to get it through Facebook I signed up for it and got it through YouTube. There wasn’t anything radically new but the way it is put together is very different from anything else I’ve heard and I think it’s that which has made a difference for me. I’m not out of the woods yet but at least I’m walking on the path.

David Hands